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Get Back Your Ex Just By Being Less Attainable And More Of A Challenge For Her

You had been a challenge for her. You had a superior appeal and she had been irresistibly drawn to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"

I'm going to make a wild guess here, but could it be that as time went on, you started to be less and less of a challenge for her? And is it that right now, you are absolutely no challenge for her? And also that she believes if she wanted to, at any moment she could easily get you back again and twisted around her little finger by simply saying the word?

I am going to be crude here, nevertheless as you know, to become a challenge once again you need to prove to your ex-girlfriend that her sexuality does not have any influence over you any longer. Consider what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And after that consider what it is like when you continue doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You are implying to the woman that you are a low-value guy without any other sexual options.

She will not respect you again until you refuse her dominance over you. Fortunately you're doing that now by not specifically corresponding with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.

Be sure to stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. Don't be "friends" with her, as that rewards your ex with the ongoing approval of power over you while giving her a handy justification to stay broken up. (Your ex reasons that she's letting you down easy doing this, assuaging virtually any guilt she may experience.)

Then again, you should definitely keep her locked in with your things. More than likely quite a few your belongings are at her residence, and vice versa. She could even owe you money as well. She might ask a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you'd like everything returned.

The right answer to this is simply "No, not yet. The rationale is simply because her holding onto your things (and you possessing hers) is still locking the two of you in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.

For the up coming 3 weeks, you need to totally acknowledge -- and embrace -- the undeniable fact that you're an independent person now. Take what took place with your ex and learn from it. You've got a fantastic opportunity to revolutionize your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.